I have friends whose child took his own life. Others saw their children struggle with addiction or mental illness in the months before their death. The enemy would like to convince them (and us) that their children are not in heaven, that they were not loved by Our Father. I cannot know another person’s heart. I cannot tell you who is in heaven and who is not. That is for the Father to know. He judges the heart, not the outside actions. But I can tell you that we are all loved by the Father.