Valuable Things

Ron is off social media for a while, but I want to brag on him. Wednesday he called and asked me to schedule a sitter for Friday evening so we could go out with friends. (I have to schedule such things with the agency else he would have called.) Thursday evening he listened while I…

Disappointment Is a Wonderful Feeling

Something unusual happened today. We’ve been married 36 years. That’s a long time. We are getting older. We’ve spent lots of time together. It’s easy to get used to things, to get used to each other. Ron comes home for lunch a couple of times each week. I don’t know when he’s coming or what…

He Is Right. Again.

In the past couple of days I’ve received phone calls, messages, and texts from half a dozen women who need comfort, help, or love. Some of them I hadn’t heard from in months or years. I like them all. They are wonderful ladies. Here is a conversation between my husband and me: Me: It’s like…

Sex.

Ladies, this is truth from God’s Word. For all of us. Please, do not use your body as a way to control or manipulate your spouse. That is not that way God intended us to be. He designed sex to be a beautiful thing within marriage.

Romance Novels

I posted books I have read the past few months. In that post I said I don't like horror or romance novels. A friend asked why I don't like romance novels. For me, they lead to sin. Reading a romance novel can cause me to become unhappy with my own marriage. True romance novels filled…

Marriage Relationships

Yes, I know. This is not a topic you expect to see in a blog that started because of grief. But here it is. And if you read the whole article you’ll see why. Sex. I said it. I’ll say it again a few more times in this article.  “Sex” is not a dirty word. It…

A Glimpse Into My Brain

No, I’m not always serious. And I’m not always completely….hum…sane? Here is a glimpse into my brain according to my Facebook feed the past few weeks:  It is Monday. And a sweet friend met me there for lunch. We talked for four hours. 😳 Almost a year ago I posted about being sure you have…